Monday, January 28, 2008

A Little Reflecting

Have you ever had a day where you just spent the majority of it reflecting on others? I had one of those days today and I'm going to try and explain as best I can. I was thinking today "What is it that makes quilters so unique?"
These are some of the answers/thoughts that came to me.

We share a love of beautiful fabrics, threads, notions, designs, creations, needles and of course quilts, but what struck me the most is the fact that as women with a common love we also have that built in intuition if one of our fellow quilters is in need. Now I wonder if that is just a woman thing or a quilter thing. In the eleven months that I've been blogging, I have found women who are so willing to share their talents, knowledge and love of their craft with so many others. Regardless of ones experience there is always someone to turn to to ask for advice, and one of the wonderful things that springs to mind is that you won't be looked down on or judged, if you are the one asking for the advice.
Perhaps it's because as women we are nurturers, it's something that's inbuilt in all of us. We know how to care for others, to show compassion to offer nonjudgmental advice. But what I've noticed that stands out above all these wonderful things is the fact that quilters are so giving and so generous.
I have been blessed in so many ways, by so many of you, that have offered your hand in friendship, with advice, patterns, magazines, lovely soft mail, prayer and telephone conversations.
It would be wrong of me to try and list each person that has had an impact on my blogging life, which in turn blends into my family life. Apart from which I don't think there would be enough room in one post to list each and everyone of you and I'd hate to leave any one's name out and offend you. You allow me to enter into a small part of your life, by sharing what you're working on, or what's happening in your home. You make me feel welcome, you trust me enough to only leave positive words of encouragement on your blog, and for that I thank you.
Now perhaps you're wondering what brought on all this deep thinking, that this is so not Linda......Actually it is.

All of this started this morning when I went to the letter box to check for today's mail. I had plans of showing you the lovely fabrics that arrived in my letter box that I ordered last week for a swap that Bren and I are doing. But I'd rather share this with you, it just touched my heart so much.
I received a small parcel from Nancy but it also included Peg's name on the envelope. My immediate thought was that Nancy hadn't received Peg's address to send her the prize for the birthday giveaway she had on her blog last week, (and just in case you're still trying to work out how old I am, 51 is the answer). When I opened the envelope this is what I found inside.

(click to enlarge so you can read it)

Along with these beautiful fat quarters.



Thank you so much Nancy for providing the beautiful fat quarters and Peg, thank you for your sweet giving spirit. You have both blessed me today more than you can imagine. I thank the Lord for each and everyone of you, and my prayer for you is that the Lord would pour out Hiss blessings upon each of you, just as you have blessed me.

Happy Stitching.

23 comments:

Peg - Happy In Quilting said...

Linda, you have bought tears to my eyes...how wonderful you have made me feel with you lovely kind words, I feel that I am very blessed to have found "All Stitched Up" in blogland.... love....Peg x

Nadine said...

Dear Linda,
how could I skip your birthday ? Sorry, sorry, my friend, I hadn't realized. Well I guess it's not too late to wish you a VERY, VERY happy (belated) birthday, from the bottom of my heart !
(welcome to the "50's club" ! By the way I wouldn't have thought you were in it :>)

With a big special ((HUG)) and smiles to you,
NADINE

Leigh said...

Hi Linda, I couldn't agree more! I deleted my blog 6 months ago for various reasons but I love keeping up with what everyone is doing. Today out of the blue a surprise gift arrived from America from a very sweet blog friend I made all those months ago. Quilters really are the best!!

Bren said...

I agree that quilter's have a unique heart. I was touched, but not surprised by Peg and Nancy's generous gift. A quilter will give up what belongs to her for another quilter...no questions asked!
I think there will be a huge quilter's section in heaven.

Kristie said...

That is so very precious! And what a sweet thing for Peg and Nancy to do. And I would have never guessed that you we even anywhere close to 50!
Kristie

Libby said...

I couldn't agree more - through blogging, I have found the sweetest, most supportive and generous group of friends and for that I am grateful each and every day *s*

Jeanne said...

How kind of Peg and Nancy to send you the fat quarters! I hope you find just the right project in which to use them. It will remind you of them each time you look at it. Quilters rock!

julieQ said...

What a beautiful post, and how true!! I have met so many lovely people through my blog, quilters all, and they are just so sweet and always have a kind comment or funny quip! And you are one of these wonderful people! Fun, isn't it!!

Julie

Darlene said...

Linda, what a delightful post to read this morning. The blogging world is a very unique world and until someone participates they just don't get it. I'm glad that you decided to blog and share yourself with everyone.

((HUGS))

Solstitches said...

Such a lovely post to read Linda.
I love what Peg and Nancy did for you.

Marilyn R said...

Yes, I agree! Quilter's are wonderful, sharing, caring group of people. I haven't been blogging long, but feel right at home in blog land due to the kindness of quilter's.

atet said...

Well said and what a lovely gift. And that little mini you did? Perfect.

Sweet P said...

I agree with you on the kindness of women and bloggers. I have met many, many wonderful women in the nearly two years I've been blogging. Women I would have never met any other way.

Not a day goes by that I don't think about all of them and thank God for bringing all of us together.

Thanks for writing "out loud" what I'm sure so many of us feel.

Yvonne said...

Wonderful post Linda and I couldn't agree more. :)

Carole said...

Thank you for sharing Linda! I couldn't agree more.

Wendy said...

Your words are well put, I couldn't agree more. Blogging friends are very supportive...I cherish all the friendships I've made.

Pam said...

That is so lovely of them! My husband always said he has never met a quilter that wasn't nice. Quilter are so willing to work on creating something beautiful - and then they just give it away and ask nothing in return.

Guðrún said...

I do agree with you and I am so glad that I entered the blogworld and met you and other wonderful, wonderful ladies.

Tracey @ozcountryquiltingmum said...

That is lovely...enjoy your gifts! Tracey

Red Geranium Cottage said...

What a nice post. You really do meet some of the nicest women here in blogland and if they are a quilter, even better.

Sew Prim Khris said...

What a wonderful, wonderful, surprise for Peg and Nancy to do for you. Yes, life in cyberland is so truly blessed with all our thoughtful, caring friends. Hugs, Khris in Oz

Kim said...

As you know I have had the ultimate experience while staying in CA. To have a quilter offer up her sewing room and all of it's contents is awesome! To have a new quilter friend take you along for fun quilt activities is so much like a quilter. No surprises here that quilter's blogging world is as awesome and generous a group you will ever hope to find. You, Linda, are my very first blogger friend. You helped me to establish my blog, you encouraged me to join in and share. You have offered your ear and personal phone when I was feeling down. You may be surprised at all the returned niceties that you receive, but I am certainly not. What goes around comes around!

A big hug to you. Thanks for taking time to reflect on the many good and positive findings in our quilter friends.

Nan said...

What a beautiful post, Linda. I agree with everything you've said here. I have found that bloggers, quilters or not, are the most giving people I have ever met, and my life is much better as a result. We are very lucky, aren't we? You are definitely a blessing to everyone who visits you, with your lovely thoughts and the unselfish sharing of your talents.
The lovely gift you received is a testament to the wonderful lady you are!